I spoke with a man on the phone today. He wanted some help with shyness. He called me questions, whether my hypnotic language things that could help him. He said he wanted to able to get emotional States in people when he spoke to them.


This is a cool capability. I mean, everyone has got his aware to a joyful State, for instance-fun can help.


If I a couple of questions, I have the core of it. The man was too shy to talk with people. Is what now, good hypnotic language if he can speak to people in the first place? The hypnotic language skills in the world is not Gong to help better the conversation to him, unless he can have conversations in the first place!


What is the process in mind that comes with this strategy of appearance? It comes as something like…


“I really wish I could speak with this person and get it to light, but I feel enough, not sure to speak with them.” I bet that hypnotic language helps me do. “Maybe I will buy a program on it!”


People are often looking for something on the outside, to change the feeling, they must on the inside. Sometimes it works. But in my experience, it is much faster and better the other way around.


If he had confidence when he thought about the people speak, he would do then is just it. He could do it well, it could be not bad, but he would do it. The leverage point is that the idea immediately to his decision as to whether or not speaking people and the feelings of these thoughts lead to create.


If you, work on yourself or a client, and you work properly at this point in time, where the decisions are taken, is there a good chance you not the maximum leverage to get the problem.


The and you change the behavior of the feelings on this decision point.


But most people try these feelings durch… Change


Approximately 98% of advice out there suggests on personal growth, what to do. And in some cases it is useful. If you are more organized, for example want to, it could help, buy an organizer and start your tasks record.


But chances are, if you are currently not well organized, there is a feeling that is to stop you. Many messy people feel overwhelmed, when they think of get organized. If they do not feel that she would have shot better much to be successful. I go so far as to say that the purchase of an organizer will only succeed insofar as it the discards the feeling!


In other words, if the feeling of overwhelm the doesn’ t change, the problem probably makes you buy how many organizers don’t either-no.


Many more problems in the lives of the people are the same way. It is a feeling that keeps success. A different feeling would help that to achieve success.


NLP & hypnosis offer many tools for changing the feelings and add these feelings on a particular keyword. There is direct stimulation, anchoring, Swish pattern, the new behavior generator, hypnotic metaphor…


Have fun with it.


After you have built the emotions/behaviors and integrated, you can create more skill.


If you strung emotions, that and you have still no success, you may need some specific advice on what to do. Fortunately, there is a dime a dozen. Just buy a book, or rather read Abby.


Enjoy,
Keith