We do sometimes hypnotists to strengthen so-called ego. To strengthen the ego, we have a client leader’s past achievements and feel good about it. Then, we can those good feelings of the client current life either in a general way bind, “… and the sounds of the day, remember these achievements”, or to a particular context “If you see that your boss you automatically have memories of past achievements and the good feelings, to go with them.”
The idea is, people who respond to their environment based on their feelings. In general sense can better more resourceful. We use good feelings from the past and include, where they very useful. I think this is good.
So there are two basic goals-to help of clients (or us) feel better and you/us a better performance.
I’m good for me. All in all, even if performance is in a certain context, no matter how I feel, I would feel rather good as bad. And feeling is good a valid therapeutic results. But what is if you want to achieve more? Boost self-esteem in general one good approach? Maybe not.
“We have no evidence, that the promotion of self-esteem (by therapeutic interventions or schools) leads to that found benefits.” “Our results support no widespread efforts to self-esteem in the hope that it will promote even better results.”
Baumeister, Campbell, Krueger and Vohs (2003)
If you want you can do your own research. Me indicates that the extensive resources, dedicated to raising are largely wasted self-esteem in our school system to increase to any kind of performance. You do it is not right or it (IMO) do not work! And the details of schools could apply to other contexts.
Read some of these studies gave me some ideas. I started to step at a time when I felt that I was in a high status. Time, I felt a sense of the Championship. For me, it seemed at that time, I do not refer any sense of self-esteem. In fact, ever thought about me were few and far between. If I thought about myself, it was performance-but in a mostly related to my emotional judgmental way evaluate. It was more that I was doing, where I was and adjustments to make it better.
In my experience when I was in a ‘,’ top state am, the ego disappears. Self-esteem is no consideration.
Recently, I asked a group of 25 people, mentally re time, if they feel believed the Championship. About half reported that I experienced something similar, what something; They had relatively little reference to their sense of value of the task. Their self-esteem with reference to the task point half. Interesting.
Of course, it is quite possible that some of us were unaware, attached like the task of our self-esteem. Also, a feeling of self-esteem also important in another part of the process would have; before we the task, for example. Or perhaps there are many contexts in which a sense of the championship not be called for where self-esteem could play a greater role.
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